Hi to the big bad world...
I have just over the past year started internet dating. Between myself and my friends we have more than a few funny stories to tell! Also thought I would give you some tips for girls and maybe even the fellas could learn a few tricks on how to get that girl. It is all about fun people and that is what some people dont get. It is also about honesty you have to give credit to the guys on that one they will mostly be honest with you if you ask them. Yes there are some we shall say weirdo's out there and you do have to be careful but I have actually found that the decent guys will give you time to get to know them. That doesn't necessarily mean you want to find the love of your life but lets face it you can have so much fun with someone you know a little bit better then a complete stranger.
Some of my friends have found internet dating cold, they say that it is nicer to talk to someone. I think they are right on some level but I have also found you can get to know someone so much better when you message them. You don't have to worry about there reaction because they are not in front of you so you tend to be more honest. I have always found in past relationships that the problem is with not being honest afraid of hurting each others feelings and not really knowing what to say or do. Over the internet you take all of that away, yes some people can have bad reactions but you can just delete the message lol. Most sites let you block or report a person for inappropriate conduct. Buy my opinion is just pull them up on it. Most guys if they are being rude or inappropriate sometimes don't realise it. I just laugh at most of them and slag them over what they have written and then they slag me back and you can actually end of have a decent conversation. A sense of humour is a must with internet dating. If you don't take things too seriously then you end of having a great time.
